155 gr. from most 10mm autos would definitely be an easy load to shoot, given their size.
Personally, I think I'd take something in the area of 200 gr.
I figure that if I'm going to use a 10mm, period, I'm probably a big enough guy to handle the recoil, and there's no point, in my mind, of using anything less than the very strongest ammo you can shoot well.