Well, I'm just saying that caliber discussion is great and all, but this one really seems destined to end in a battle over "stopping power," if it is allowed to go on, and those usually turn into shouting matches.
Now, if the question was what loads do forensic pathologists carry, it might get interesting. Seeing what they think works best, within a caliber, might open up some doors for people that already use that particular caliber. However, I must warn against trumping the fact that a pathologist uses a specific caliber as proof that this caliber is "best" or that it is "better than" or even that it is "good." There's probably at least one forensic pathologist in this world that carries a .25, and while I, personally, think that the .25 is a good round, because it is, in fact, a round, which goes into a gun, which is a good thing to have, no matter how small, I must warn you that the average Joe is not ready to accept the idea of a .25 being a "good," or, for that matter, just an "okay" round.
After all, the P230, .380- packing pathologist mentioned earlier probably picked that gun for more reasons than just some deeply-bred sense of love for the .380. It was probably as much a function of concealability, ergonomics, and perhaps some loyalty to SIG as a brand, as it was a function of the gun's caliber, that made him choose it. In other words, he probably picked that gun because he liked the gun, itself, rather than because he liked its caliber.
Sound farfetched? Not really. How many of you guys, here, carry 9mm Hi-Powers, as much because you love the Hi-Power, as because you believe in the 9mm round? This is not, by the way, to say that you don't genuinely believe in that round, or that it is a poor choice. I like 9mm, myself. I like .45 slightly better, but I'm not going to cry if 9mm is all I have available. It's more than enough round to do the job, if used properly.
Or take, for instance, the mind-boggling number of 1911s that currently see daily carry. Let's be honest, for the size and weight, there are guns that make more logical sense for CCWs. For instance, a Glock 30 holds three more rounds, in a smaller and lighter, if somewhat wider, package. However, 1911s are still going to see daily carry, for years to come, and in large numbers, too. Why? People like them -- and there's nothing wrong with that.
Carry what you like. If you can get it in a caliber you like, then carry it in that caliber, to boot! Whatever you do, above all, just carry A GUN!!